Category Archives: A challenge?

Dare to be dependent?


I almost fell off my chair.  I am watching an innocent program about a middle-aged woman looking for love.  She wants a man to love, she is tired of lavishing her affections on her cat.  We follow her to many … Continue reading

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Help is not always helpful


Yes we have covered this subject before but I have just been given a new perspective.  Maybe I have never thought about this sort of help being harmful but I guess it can be – I have recently been to … Continue reading

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Push me pull you


Remember Dr.Doolittle?  I loved that movie as a child I dreamed of being able to talk to animals and understand them.  Today many people refer to other humans as animals in different sayings or references; crazy animal, party animal etc. … Continue reading

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Who am I?


I thought I knew who I was.  What I liked and where I was going.  I remember writing my five-year plan and beginning the breakdown of big goals to easy to take steps.  It was great! But it was a long time ago. … Continue reading

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Isolation


Isolation is everywhere, even in our own homes.  Some of us find ways to disguise our isolation so it feels like protection. What do I mean? I would like to give you and example.  You may have known or even … Continue reading

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Intimacy


Intimacy is an interesting word.  What type of picture does it conjure in your mind?  Sharing of intimacy may sound like sex but before sex hopefully something deeper is there to share – otherwise we may have jumped into something … Continue reading

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honesty – sheesh


In my courage to change book by Al-Anon Family groups I happened to look up the word honesty and it referenced to page 24.  I wanted to write about this especially after returning from a two month “vacation” with family … Continue reading

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Easy to be critical


It is so easy to be critical. It takes a whole lot more thought, research, patience and understanding to be willing to try to understand something we are not used to.  This applies to so many things – the politics … Continue reading

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We’ve come a long way baby! Birth controll is for sissies.


Just a little more good reading: we have come long way baby! I decided to re-post some great subjects that get lost in our news nonsense, this is something that is affecting us and everyone, everything that needs, drinks, lives … Continue reading

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The American Dream


The American Dream. I hope you like this.  Actually I hope it makes you feel sick to your stomach and want to do something , to take action.  Action doesn’t mean big and huge it means whatever you can do! … Continue reading

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