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About mainbean

I graduated december 2014 from Bergströms a Counselor specialized in Co-dependency Therapy. I love to read, discuss and learn. I usually write every other weekend and hope to see how much I grow during this process.

19 aug


One day at a time is… all we can hope for all we can controll all we can handle all we can be thankful for its everything. One day at  a time is all we need. If we know how … Continue reading

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One year and two months


I left for a while! Writing had been so hard, piecing words together that paint  the puzzle of my sister’s life I so desperately want and need to make sense of. You, my dear friend I hope can sympathize with … Continue reading

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Watching a sister – 5


She is eleven. Still a child but well on her way to becoming a young adult very quickly. My parents decided to move from one town to another. This is a small place, off the beaten path. Parents sometimes think … Continue reading

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Watching sister – 4


So here we are in the beautiful neighborhood. A dream come true for my step dad and the whole family. But sometimes beautiful things hide mean people. Not just mean people but mean children. Little sister was a sweetie. She … Continue reading

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To watch a sister -3


The spend the night parties continued. Not Only the love affair that was splitting us apart but my sister continued to be shuttled between my mom and her father. He lived now at his parents home and that is where … Continue reading

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To watch a sister 2


It was the same neighborhood, same house, same yard but there was something very different. How can I explain it? The feeling was different. Maybe it was because mom was crying all the time again. She had been crying a … Continue reading

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To watch a sister -1


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It’s all fun and games…


It’s all fun and games untill someone get’s hurt. That is what I have always heard anyway. Looking at families that have had to go through an intervention I think it’s a true statement. An intervention doesn’t have to be … Continue reading

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Moms and Dadio are hittin’ the pipe


  You know it really bothers me that we haven’t had more press on the states that have decided to allow pot smoking to be legal.  Sure it is new, but where are the discussions? No elementary schools or middle … Continue reading

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I want to die


Have you ever said this? Did you mean what you said? There has been little talk lately about assisted suicide or assisted death but it is sure to come up again soon.  There have been many books published and articles … Continue reading

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